SOBER EVENTS GUIDE MAY

May 5, 2025

Vee Willard

You asked for it, and we created it! This month's spring-y roundup of events in the city that are alcohol-free or where alcohol is present but easily ignored

You voted and your friends and family voted (at your urging, perhaps), and another Federal election has come and gone. We’ve somehow managed to ward off fascism for another chunk of years. Yay democracy! So, let’s celebrate! But keep in mind that many of us are used to drinking when we celebrate, which may conflict with our sobriety goals, so (and this is fast becoming our mantra) celebrate YOUR OWN WAY with something queer from our list of sober queer events. And if you want to wear high leather boots while you do it, more power to you.


Please note that this guide is put together to the best of the ability of our alcohol-free Events Editor Vee, who does her best, but may not always get it right. Please use your best judgement and if an event is making you feel uncomforted or tempted to break your sobriety goals, consider leaving, and if you want to, let us know.

Saturday, May 3

Jigsaw: A Queer Mingle for the 30+ Crowd – Glad Day Bookshop

Drag vs Cabaret – Cake Cabaret

Sunday, May 4

Queer Pop-Up Market! – Metropolitan Community Church

Tender Possiblities: 2SQTBIPOC Storytelling Project – The 519

Breaking Ground: Pathways to Careers in the Trades – Buddies in Bad Times

Health is Wealth Kiki Ball – One Yonge Community Recreation Centre

Friends of Roxy Presents: Friends for Laughs – Pegasus

Slaysian Heritage Tour-Toronto – Bier Markt

Monday, May 5

The Vinyl Diaries Toronto Book Launch with Pete Crighton – Lula Lounge

Wednesday, May 7

Gay AF Comedy Presents: Elvira Kurt – Comedy Bar

Friday, May 9

Drag Me To The Movies: Die Mommie Die – Paradise Theatre

Saturday, May 10

Make a Zine: The Arquives Zine Workshop – The Arquives

Sapphic Euchre Brunch – The 519

Drag vs Cabaret – Cake Cabaret

Sunday, May 11

Drag Brunch Bingo – Mother’s Day – Storm Crow Manor

Wednesday, May 14

Venus in Fur – BMO Incubator Theatre
(Runs until May 17)

Genrefuck – Buddies in Bad Times
(Runs until May 31)

Thursday, May 15

Sapphic Open Stage – C.C.’s Bar and Grill

Straps – Houndstooth

Gay AF Comedy: Homo Say What? – Glad Day Bookshop

Friday, May 16

Long Live the Rainbow – Alumnae Theatre Company
(Runs until May 25)

Sunday, May 18

Welcome to The Emerald City Kiki Ball – The 519

Wednesday, May 21

Drag N Fire: Super Heroes & Villains! – Glad Day Bookshop

Sunday, May 25

Disney Drag Trivia – Bier Markt

Thursday, May 29

I Will Say This Though – Comedy Bar

Events will be added to this sober guide as we find them. If we are missing your event please feel free to get in touch.

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