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A comprehensive list of the recurring queer sex-positive parties in Toronto for us, by us
What's this now? Is Toronto getting sexier?...
Concealed in a dark room's shadows, displayed on a crowded dancefloor, secured with an array of leather straps, coated in latex and all oiled up, decked out like a dog on a wrestling team—there are countless ways to tantalize your naughty side in this great and all-too-wholesome city of ours. To support you in your depravities, here is our comprehensive guide (in alphabetical order) to all the recurring sex-positive queer parties in Toronto. Read, but beware: endless delights await.
Please note that most of these parties are “sex-positive” rather than being full-out sex parties—so, they foster an uninhibited atmosphere where intimacy can, but need not necessarily, happen. And in all cases consent is key, duh!
This is a list of sex-positive events in spaces all over the city that we are not affiliated with. If you have any issues regarding inclusion or event rules, please reach out to the ogranizers.
Wiggle your bits provocatively at this dance party where full nudity is mandatory. There is a large darkroom at this venue.
Who’s welcome? All guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check? Yes.
The first Friday of each month at The Lair.
This bro-focused frat party is complete with beer pong and hazing rituals.
Who’s welcome? All guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check? Yes.
The last Friday of each month at The Lair.
Frame dat ass on the dancefloor at this popular gear party.
Who’s welcome? It's a men only (male presenting) event.
Clothing Check? Yes.
The first Saturday of each month at The Black Eagle.
High socks and exposed cheeks are on the menu at this sporty party.
Who’s welcome? All guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check? Yes.
The second Friday of each month at The Lair.
Sports gear, a towel, or full on nudity are encouraged at this sporty party with a free clothes check.
Who’s welcome? All guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check? Yes.
The second and fourth Sundays of each month at The Lair.
The goal of this party is to gather and welcome big hairy, beefcake studs and the guys that love them dance and flirt.
Who’s welcome? Everyone. Hairy men and muscle dudes will love it the most.
Every other month on the first Friday at The Black Eagle.
Behind on your laundry? No need to worry at this party where nudity is mandatory on the main floor.
Who's welcome? All guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check? Yes.
The third Thursday of each month at The Black Eagle.
Recover from your hard week with some group sex.
Who’s welcome? Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check? There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
Every Saturday at Anvil.
Bring all your kinks and your best gear to this gritty fetish rave.
Who’s welcome? Absolutely everyone and anyone “with the exception of garbage fascists.” They are intersectional and consider themselves a very queer party.
Clothing Check? There is a coat check. Not 100% if they'll keep all your clothes for you. We'll let you know.
Four times each year–in April, June, September and December–at Ground Control.
They host an array of lifestyle parties for rubber and latex lovers.
Who’s welcome? Everyone! All groups!
They have several parties at different frequencies and venues.
Play and dance anywhere at this popular fuckfest.
Who’s welcome? Men, cis or trans.
Clothing Check? Oh yes.
The second Friday of each month at The Black Eagle.
A queer pole dancing, stripper, performance art, dark-cornered party that happens inside a strip club. This one is very special.
Who's welcome? It's an all inclusive sex resort! All groups a part of the 2SLGBTQIA+.
Clothing Check? No.
This one happens when it happens. Follow their IG page or better yet, sign up for the newsletter.
This is a dance party inside a bathhouse, which has a bar and a dancefloor and lights and smoke and performances.
Who's welcome? Men, cis or trans.
Clothing Check? Duh.
This one happens every few months at Spa Excess. Best to follow's the DJ's page for when they pop up.
Bators galore! What could be simpler than a bunch of dudes jackin’ it?
Who’s welcome? Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check? There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
The last Sunday of each month at Anvil.
A full on horny rave for all interests and the whole community.
Who’s welcome? All inclusive, All groups a part of the 2SLGBTQIA+.
Clothing Check? You bet.
The first Saturday of every other month at The Lair (venue may change)
An “anything goes” dance and play party.
Who’s welcome? All guys (trans and non-binary guys included).
Clothing Check? Yes
The third Friday of each month at The Lair.
Horny guys cruise and soak up the fluids.
Who’s welcome? Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check? There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
Every Thursday at Anvil.
Scantily clad guys just looking for someone to warm them up.
Who’s welcome? Cis men, bi men, trans men–male presenting folks primarily.
Clothing Check? There's a coat and bag check included with your entry.
Every Sunday at Anvil.
Guys gush over each other at this fap-happy bash.
Who's welcome? This is a men-only event, trans men included.
The first Wednesday of each month at The Black Eagle.
A dance party for everyone where queer euphoria is the goal.
Who’s welcome? All queer people–all identities, all expressions, all bodies. It is, however, mainly a man-heavy fuck fest.
Clothing check? Yup!
Monthly (the date varies) at 19 Toronto St.
Sexy Special Mention
Bunker (has a permanent dark room) the newest venue on Church Street is a sexy underground nightclub with a backroom for xxx-tra fun.
Steamy Sidenote: Bathhouse Parties
Tap the link to each bathhouse to head to their monthly calendar. We've listed their monthly events below.
Also check out our Toronto Bathhouse Guide for more details on each venue.
Chubs in the Tubs
Bear in Excess
Latin Night
Rough House
Asian Night
Cum Union
Northern Bear Baths
TRANSlation
Load Count Night
Sapphic Aquatica
If we missed your recurring sex-positive queer party, please do get in touch at events@yohomo.ca.
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