Learn how to stay safe, see red flags, and help others feel safer in kink spaces, whether you are online or in-person!
Looking to set up a discreet kink profile on social media or FetLife? Not sure if that message you got recently was actually problematic or just rubbed you the wrong way? Want to make sure you're not missing a dangerous red flag when engaging with someone new?
This is the workshop for you.
We Will Cover:
How to set up and use online profiles including how to keep your identity secure, avoid scams, and get less creepy messages
Essential ethics to create better, more respectful interactions
Definitions to distinguish green, yellow, and red flags
Different ways flags can interact with our perspective including flag blindness, personal flags, and universal flags
How to vet a potential play partner so you can feel more affirmed in your "yes" or avoid a bad experience
18 red flags for anyone of any kink orientation
10 red flags specific to Dominants
5 red flags specific to submissives
11 green flags to inspire your confidence in a good connection
This workshop will also include two free handouts along with a discount code for Patreon-exclusive worksheets related to the topic.
Want to save on the full Intentional Kink series? Get the Total Desire Pass! This will also give you a FREE month on Patreon (meaning you also get those exclusive worksheets free) + 15% off a coaching session.
About the Instructor
Wiley Wolfe (they/them) is a kink educator, coach, and community organizer based in Toronto, Canada with 9+ years experience, and the founder of the Wolfe Academy of Desire online educational initiative and community. Their workshops have been sought after across the U.S. and Canada, including at Dark Odyssey, Kinkfest, and Westcoast Bound, with their online classes reaching kinksters worldwide.
They have worked as a Professional Dominant with hundreds of clients both online and in person, coached kinksters and couples to help them reach their goals, organized 70+ community events, led support groups, created erotic immersive theatre productions, and more. They are currently pursuing a master’s-equivalent certification in sex coaching, and their personal relationships all center power exchange, queerness, polyamory, and risk-informed consent.
Kink is their authenticity practice. They delight in guiding both new and experienced players on their journeys, with a particular focus on self-exploration, deepening intention, and personal growth.
Access:
This class is offered live and online through Zoom. You may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app to join.
The class will be recorded with the recording available to ticketholders for 7 days. After that time, the recording will be available on Patreon for all tiers that have access to the archive. Recordings will not include any open group shares at the end of class.
The free handouts accompanying this class will be supplied at the end of class and will be downloadable for ticketholders to keep. They are not interactive to the class.
Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.