Decode your kinky desires, learn to assess risk, and put it together to discover what you're truly ready to explore in this online workshop.
How do we identify not only what kinks we want to try, but also whether we can actually handle the real-world risks that might come with them?
In this 3-hour online intensive, you'll complete a Desire Assessment to uncover what you desire and unpack where it comes from, a Risk Assessment to identify what is and is not in your risk profile, and put it all together into a Stoplight Chart so that you can clearly communicate your interets, boundaries, and safety needs the next time you're ready to play.
The intensive will be in parts with short breaks in between, complete with an interactive exercise workbook to follow along and opportunities for discussion - perfect for both new and experienced players.
We Will Cover:
Part 1: Desire Assessment
The "why" and "what" of Desire Assessments
Looking inward to understand desire
Unpacking the roots of desire through introspective and somatic frameworks
Addressing shame and how it relates to desire
Naming and how to talk about what we desire
Part 2: Risk Assessment
The "why" and "what" of risk and Risk Assessments, along with political implications
Risk attitude definitions
Identifying activity risks, risk levels, and personal non-negotiables
Risk management practices and implementation
Building your risk profile
Part 3: Put It All Together
Putting your Desire and Risk Assessments together into a Stoplight Chart of kinks for future play negotiation and communication
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About the Instructor
Wiley Wolfe (they/them) is a kink educator, coach, and community organizer based in Toronto, Canada with 9+ years experience, and they are the founder of the Wolfe Academy of Desire online educational initiative and community. Their workshops have been sought after across the U.S. and Canada, including at Dark Odyssey, Kinkfest, and Westcoast Bound, with their online classes reaching kinksters worldwide.
They coach kinksters and couples to help them reach their goals, have worked as a Professional Dominant with hundreds of clients, have organized 70+ community events, led support groups, created erotic immersive theatre productions, and more. They are currently pursuing a master’s-equivalent certification in sex coaching, and their personal relationships all center power exchange, queerness, polyamory, and risk-informed consent.
Kink is their authenticity practice. They delight in guiding both new and experienced players on their journeys, with a particular focus on self-exploration, deepening intention, and personal growth.
Access:
This class is offered live and online through Zoom. You may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app to join.
The class will be recorded with the recording available to ticketholders for 7 days. After that time, the recording will be available on Patreon for all tiers that have access to the archive. Recordings will not include any open group shares at the end of sections or end of class.
The digital workbook accompanying this class will be downloadable during class for ticketholders to keep. It can be viewed on mobile or computer, but may be easiest to interact with on computer.
Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.